This is embarrassing...first time tampon user question! HELP?! ?

your right that is your vagina :P listen your only 13 dont worry or be embarrassed :) it can be uncomfortaabe but you arent doing anything wrong :) ok umm those two hangy down things aint your "clits" :P but anyways spread them and feel around the bottom thats where the hole is and just makke sure you are relaxed before you slide it in